Saturday, July 23, 2005

?!? Best Friends ?!?

What are frenz for? I often ask myself and start to re-evaluate my friendships with others. I feel this gap btwn my frenz and I. Somehow, I can't get any closer to them. The gap can be measured in metres, kilometres, yards, miles blah blah. Differs from case to case. =/

We often label frenz. Best frenz, good frenz, confidante, acquaintance etc. These labels can sometimes be a burden. But it lets u know where you stand in one's heart.

Right now, I'm starting to tink where do I stand in the hearts of my 3 sec sch (best) frenz. Esp P2. I wasn't involved in the main hooha but I can't bare to see my other 2 frenz feeling angry, sad, frustrated, all bcoz of an unappreciative fren. When such things happen, I will choose not to care. Let the matter rest and after a long while, I'll try to talk things through. But right now, I have to say something! Heh.

Let me talk abt this in an outsider's point of view. Communication is the fundamental in any relationship. How can anyone guess what your likes and dislikes are juz by a glance? You ought voice out, isn't it? What's worse now...this communication breakdown is happening only after knowing one another for 7 years? Is this a joke or wat?

When problem arises, it takes two hands to clap. Obviously, it's pretty unfair to blame the innocent when it's u who refused to let them know the reasons behind your actions. I'm a very frank and I simply can't coat my words with honey for u.

As your friend, one of the foursome, I feel that u're very fortunate. OK...it's ur misfortune to have me as ur fren. But P1 n P3 really cares for you, despite how u treated them. This is my first time seeing them like this especially P3. This shows how much they treasure u. I believe if this was to happen to me...things wun be the same.

If you're reading this, I hope you can speak up. I really can't stand things happening w/o communication. We need to know how u tink. Apparently, these 7 years we haven been hearing enough from you. If you treat us like ur (best) frenz, you would be say something. For the past 7 yrs, we're the ones making the first moves. *injustice* It's time for u to make yours.

I'll take it as losing a friend if I dun hear from you. The tot of u not giving a damn...juz makes me erkz. *hope not*

PiGz ^(oo)^ _{10:49 am}

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